Choose the right ask: Pick something small and specific, like “Which shop fixes RO quickly?” or “Could you share the plumber’s number?”
Make it easy to accept (or decline): Add a time boundary (“whenever you have a minute today”) and a safe out (“only if it’s no trouble”).
Close the loop: Send a short thank you and one-line update (“Repaired today - your contact helped!”). Offer help back when relevant.
Ask one neighbor/colleague for a contact or quick tip today; send a thank-you line after.
Avoid repeat asks to the same person; spread requests and offer help in return. Be mindful of power dynamics (e.g., staff on duty) - keep tone respectful and never pressure. Don’t ask for personal data or anything sensitive; stick to light, everyday help.