Choose the moment: Pick something that took effort - a recovery, move, decision, stretch of caregiving, graduation.
Mark it: In a notebook or phone note, write one line about what it was; add a memory or photo if you have it. If you want, add 1–2 lines on how it felt.
Optional celebration: If you want, add a small, personal celebration that suits you.
Open a note titled Milestones and write one line: “On [date], I ___; it took ___.”
Protect others’ privacy; use initials or keep details light. If a memory feels heavy, choose a gentler milestone or do this with someone you trust.