Start With A Small Ask

Start With A Small Ask

Ask someone nearby or in your WhatsApp group for a small favour so connection feels easy and warm.

  • 1–5 mins
  • Weekly
  • Effort: Casual
  • Ingredient: Community & Sense of Belonging
    Feeling connected to the people and places around you
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How

01

Choose the right ask: Pick something small and specific, like “Which shop fixes RO quickly?” or “Could you share the plumber’s number?”

02

Make it easy to accept (or decline): Add a time boundary (“whenever you have a minute today”) and a safe out (“only if it’s no trouble”).

03

Close the loop: Send a short thank you and one-line update (“Repaired today - your contact helped!”). Offer help back when relevant.

Easy Start

Ask one neighbor/colleague for a contact or quick tip today; send a thank-you line after.

Why It Matters

Small, respectful asks create warmth and trust. People feel good when they help, and you both have a reason to talk again - belonging grows.

Questions and Thoughts

  1. “I don’t want to burden them.” → Keep the ask tiny and optional; include “only if it’s no trouble.”
  2. “Feels awkward.” → Start with information asks (contacts, timings, pointers), not labor.
  3. “What if they say no?” → Thank them anyway; try someone else or a smaller ask next time.

Care Notes

Avoid repeat asks to the same person; spread requests and offer help in return. Be mindful of power dynamics (e.g., staff on duty) - keep tone respectful and never pressure. Don’t ask for personal data or anything sensitive; stick to light, everyday help.