Start one place: Create a single spot - a notebook or phone note titled Done Today. Only add items after you finish them.
Write short, honest lines: include “invisible” work (helped someone, made a decision, set up a system, kept a promise, rested when needed). Add a quick tag if you like: helped / learned / moved forward.
Do a weekly snapshot: pick one tiny, one effortful, and one that helped someone. That’s your 3-line pride for the week.
Write one thing you finished today + (who it helped / how it moved something forward).
Avoid sensitive details; focus on your action, not others’ names. If daily feels heavy, switch to weekly with 3–5 bullets.